Ok Let’s Talk…Economic Crisis VS Relationship Crisis

Do we have a greater crisis than the Economic Crisis that affects us in all areas of our personal lives,  family, finances, career,  health as well as emotionally and physically?

How many times in relationships do we here ourselves saying; ” I just not get it” and you say “I thought she said or he said”. “I did not say that”, “I said this”, ” which part of that didn’t you understand?”… a duh! I think you get the drift of what I’m saying our communication and hearing can be. Or do you?

Hey, what I’m not saying in anyway is that I have “arrived” in this relationship thing….!

I do however have a PHD… in Pain, Hurt, Disappointment, Yes” you heard that right, my (PHD) credentials. I’m not Dr Phil. or Ms. O. on TV. As well, I’m not necessarily a professed “relationship guru” either!

I have failed more than once. I don’t know about you, but “I’m tired of it”! It’s time I knew what “He/She said” so that we can have the relationships we desire and that we crave. “Somebody” say… AMEN! Faith …to that!!

So Faith, what’s a girl or guy to do? Well it’s been said that sometimes you can learn more from someone “who walks with a limp, rather than someone who has never been there”. Guess that makes me qualified, as well as many of you. So, together we can say…“I have been there, done that, and got the t-shirt”  and the credentials (PHD)…! Let’s share our personal experience and talk with professionals with lots of experience who can offer suggestion, books, and our resource to help get it RIGHT!!

OK.. You ask: How can we take the hurt, the pain and disappointment out of our relationships? I’m feeling depressed, or loss of hope in my relationship what can I do? Does your “dream”of a relationship seem like it will never happen? Is your relationship or marriage not going in the direction you hoped with intimacy, romance, sharing things around the house, finances, or with the kids? Are you thinking “divorce” is the only thing left?

Join me and my guest in a lively discussion on just what it takes to build a loving and successful relationship filled with hope, peace, joy and healing and yes laughter. Yes, that’s what I said!!

  • Keep the flame burning in your relationship
  • Keep commitment strong in the tough times
  • Communicate better and just have fun! I need fun!! How about you?
  • Deepen your ability to understand each other
  • Identify relational blind spots or familiarity that may causes
  • Emotional detachment or unhealthy breakdown in communication and your relationship

Remember… All things are possible with God in the center of your life and relationship! Even communication!

Dr Gary Chapman- Five Love Languages

The bestselling book The Five Love Languages teaches us that there are five basic languages that we speak to communicate and receive love. One of my favorite all times books to help you learn what your love language is: Physical Touch, Acts of Service, Receiving Gifts, Quality Time, and Words of affirmation. “what happens to love after the marriage ”join us today as we discover ours!

Mark Gungor- Laugh Your Way To A Better Marriage

Mark Gungor , Author, Pastor, Radio & TV Host and Conference Speaker reveals truth about lasting love- that a successful marriage is not the result of marring the “ right person,” feeling the “right” emotions, thinking the “right” thoughts, or even praying the “right” prayers. It’s about doing the right things-period! Join us today as we take live call-ins, and emails to find out how we can better our relationships or “have one!

Relationship Coaching…Married, Single, Divorced

“Are you “just existing,” “getting by” or “living life” in relationship?
Without relationships we live without love, intimacy, companionship, friendship, community, support and more. We need one another. What comes with interaction and needing one another is the ability to communicate. Words are powerful. They create love and they create war. There is no more powerful tool to get what you need than the power of your language. On the other hand you can instantly lose in a moment a relationship with someone by the usage of your words.For relationships to thrive we have “needs” to be addressed, but they follow our ability to “communicate”– to be heard and understood. If you are presently in a relationship that is struggling at work or at home, it can be with a significant other, a friend, spouse, or possibly your child, it does not matter. It all affects the quality of your life. If you are seeking a rewarding and healthy relationship with someone that matters in your life, and are willing to invest in yourself to make it thrive and grow, then Relationship Coaching is for you.

In Relationship Coaching we focus on the following areas:

Keys to human needs
When to put our guard down
Taking your relationship to the next level
What we focus on determines what we experience
An outside perspective on the situation
Intentional listening
Blind spots-destructive forces
The effects on how we see things
The ability to step back
Language /Words
The power of forgiveness and making room for healing
When to take a time out
Intimacy in relationship
Body language
The familiarity principle
Emotional detachment
How to keep the spark/romance
Daily strategic action
Intentional place to work things out privately
Making time for the relationship

 

People can have all the money, all the success, the most beautiful home, cars, jewelry-“you name it”. Without  fulfilling relationships we can lose our joy and much more of life, We can lose driven purpose when our relationship is suffering from the above mentioned areas. I can think of nothing after your health that is more worthwhile investing in than the ability to have  thriving relationships. Are you “living life” or “just existing” in your present relationship? If so contact Faith and start “LIVING LIFE” in relationships!

Life Transition

Are You Dealing With Life Transitions?

There are many transitions that can occur in life: marriage, divorce, separation, moving, career change, having children. We don’t like change. We like staying in our comfort zone. The unknown is frightening. As adults we don’t like feeling like a novice or a beginner. Possibly life transitions (change) can make you feel like a failure, particularly unwanted change. These feelings can make us feel vulnerable, a bit fragile, uncertain and uncomfortable at times. If you want to be able to embrace change in your life, feel happy and fulfilled, then Life Transition Coaching is for you.

Life Transition Coaching Focuses on the Following Areas:

  Acceptance of change
  The ability to let go of the past and make room for the future
  Create a new life story to live life
  See the opportunities that come with change
  How to best maneuver in a new territory
  What you’ll change in specific environments
  Have a private space to share your thoughts
  How to grow and expand in this new territory
  Building new relationships and strengthen existing relationships
  Other resources useful for transition
  Take strategic action for the most ideal outcome
  Get support to face this challenge without feeling aloneand the accountability for clarifying results

With Transition coaching, you have a co-partner to help you get through life change with less struggle and greater ease. You will build a bridge and in making the transition from the past to the life you now live with support, as you learn to maneuver in this new territory. Instead of loathing change, you will embrace change and see the possibilities for you. If you want to feel comfortable in your transition, and find confidence and direction sooner, contact Faith, for Life Transition Coaching. Start Living LIFE!!

 

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